Ruth's Truths

Ruth's Truths is where the real conversations happen — about the systems, the gaps, the patterns, and the people caught between them. This series explores the intersection of military and civilian justice, victims' rights, institutional accountability, and what it actually takes to close the gaps that leave survivors without support.

Written by C.H.A.N.C.E. Executive Director Ruth A. Cresenzo, J.D., Ruth's Truths draws on more than 24 years inside the military justice system and a career spent navigating the spaces where institutions fail the people they are supposed to protect.

New posts are shared here and cross-posted to LinkedIn. Follow Ruth's Truths for insights on:

  • Military-connected victim advocacy and system gaps
  • Cross-system legal issues (jurisdiction, protective orders, custody)
  • Preventing preventable system failures
  • Retaliation dynamics and institutional accountability
  • Building professional competency in victim representation
  • The real-world intersection of military and civilian justice
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Ruth's Truth #22

Ruth's Truth #22: A Safety Plan Isn't Always "Just a Safety Plan"

February 2026

One of the quiet traps for survivors — especially military-connected survivors — is assuming that a "safety plan" means the same thing everywhere because it doesn't...

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Ruth's Truth #21

Ruth's Truth #21: Showing Up

February 2026

New Bern, NC got 18 inches of snow — the most in 100 years — I was the only person out on the golf course with my cross-country skis, not really expecting anything to happen. It did...

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Ruth's Truth #20

Ruth's Truth #20: When "Not Prosecutable" Becomes "Nothing Happened"

January 2026

After representing 80+ victims, here's the hard truth: most sexual assault cases in the military will never go to court-martial. That's not about credibility — it's the reality of a system that requires proof beyond a reasonable doubt...

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Ruth's Truth #19

Ruth's Truth #19: The Year Behind, the Year Ahead

January 2026

A year ago, I thought I knew what my "next" looked like — I was wrong. The year behind gave me clarity. The year ahead is about building what should have existed all along...

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Ruth's Truth #18

Ruth's Truth #18: The Gift of "Christmas"

December 2025

As Christmas rolls around this week, I keep thinking about a different kind of "Christmas" I had back in 2016—in Hawaii. At the time, I was living in Alaska and was representing my first child client...

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Ruth's Truth #17

Ruth's Truth #17: Can You Hear Me Now?

December 2025

Every time another case surfaces involving a doctor who assaults or secretly records patients, the pattern is so predictable — someone tried to warn; someone reported; no one was heard...

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Ruth's Truth #16

Ruth's Truth #16: Service of Process on Military Bases and Subpoenaing Witnesses

November 2025

After almost 30 years of being a lawyer, just when I think "I've got this," I realize how much I still have to learn. Recently, while helping a survivor in civilian court, I slammed into a wall that every attorney will hit...

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Ruth's Truth #15

Ruth's Truth #15: More "Alternative Justice"

October 2025

Most military-connected victims have been told what to do and options that are available if they are assaulted. According to the DoD FY 2024 Annual Report, there were 8,195 sexual assault reports made in FY 2024...

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Ruth's Truth #14

Ruth's Truth #14: Better Call…

October 2025

This month I was unexpectedly thrown back into the fires of civilian court after being away for 25 years. To be honest, it's been scary and absolutely not what I thought I'd be doing...

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Ruth's Truth #13

Ruth's Truth #13: Military Protective Orders and No Contact Orders — Does It Matter?

October 2025

A domestic abuse incident occurs on a military installation between spouses, and the command issues a No Contact Order instead of a Military Protective Order. Is there any difference or benefit? Short answer: YES...

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Ruth's Truth #12

Ruth's Truth #12: What Are the Alternatives When a Case Is Not Prosecuted?

September 2025

If a case isn't prosecuted in the criminal realm, victims often turn to civil court, where the burden of proof is lower. But for service members, the Feres Doctrine blocks claims under the Federal Tort Claims Act if injuries arise "incident to service"...

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Ruth's Truth #11

Ruth's Truth #11: What Happens When the OSTC Declines to Prosecute a Case?

September 2025

Since December 2023, the Office of Special Trial Counsel has had exclusive authority to decide whether to prosecute cases of sexual assault, domestic violence, murder, kidnapping, retaliation, and related crimes...

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Ruth's Truth #10

Ruth's Truth #10: What Are a "College Student's" Rights?

August 2025

Legal proceedings have begun for four soldiers accused of sexually assaulting a college student in the barracks at Joint Base Lewis-McChord (JBLM) in October 2024. The case raises important status questions when "college students" are assaulted by military members...

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Ruth's Truth #9

Ruth's Truth #9: Asking the Right Questions at the Front End — "Are You a Military Member?"

August 2025

When I was Deputy Program Manager for the National Guard Special Victims' Counsel (SVC) program, we found that 43% of SVC cases had an active-duty component, meaning one or more parties' military status was "Title 10 Active Duty"...

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Ruth's Truth #8

Ruth's Truth #8: When the Victim Is a Spouse, Partner, or Child of a Servicemember

September 2025

In 1993, North Carolina became the last state to abolish the marital rape exemption. Years later, I discovered that the Department of Defense has two separate systems for reporting sexual assault...

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Ruth's Truth #7

Ruth's Truth #7: The Role of Victim Counsel When Military Members Are Assaulted by Civilians

September 2024

What happens when a servicemember is groped or sexually assaulted by a civilian? Generally, local law enforcement has jurisdiction if off base, and there may be concurrent investigative authority if the investigation happens on base...

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Ruth's Truth #6

Ruth's Truth #6: Military-Connected Victim Representation — What About Civilian Victims?

July 2025

While serving in Alaska, I met a local attorney whose daughter was sexually assaulted by an active duty servicemember. He discovered that civilian victims are not eligible for free legal representation under the military's Victim Counsel programs...

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Ruth's Truth #5

Ruth's Truth #5: Asserting Article 6b Rights on Behalf of Victims

July 2025

The tragic case of Sailor Angelina Resendiz shows why it's essential to determine proper jurisdiction in military investigations—by identifying the status of the individuals and where the incident occurred...

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Ruth's Truth #4

Ruth's Truth #4: The Importance of Status and Location in Sexual Assault Cases

July 2025

During my time as a Special Victims' Counsel (SVC) and later as Deputy Program Manager for the National Guard SVC Program, I often encountered cases where early jurisdictional missteps created long-term challenges...

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Ruth's Truth #3

Ruth's Truth #3: Alternative Justice for Survivors

June 2025

Not every survivor chooses to participate in a court-martial or trial—and not every case proceeds to prosecution. The legal standard of "beyond a reasonable doubt" is difficult to meet, especially when the case comes down to two voices...

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Ruth's Truth #2

Ruth's Truth #2: Survivor Reporting and Participation Barriers — It's More than Filling out a Form

June 2025

"Why didn't they report?" "Oh, she reported and now is not going to cooperate???" "If it were me, I'd press charges..." We hear it all the time—but the reality is far more complex...

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Ruth's Truth #1

Ruth's Truth #1: Sexual Assault Forensic Exams — Keep Your Form on Hand

May 15, 2025

In 2012, I was a deployed JAG officer in Egypt when I was part of something I'll never forget. If someone on our camp was sexually assaulted, they had to be transported—often by helicopter—from Egypt to Israel just to receive a Sexual Assault Forensic Exam (SAFE). That process often took days...

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